Friday, October 3, 2008

The Etiquette Of Internet Friendship

I am often dismayed at how people treat each other, that a little whisper can hurt so many people. Here is the tale of one whisper, that was spoken last night.
For the record, you have to understand where this is coming from. I am the type of person that does not RULE a friendship and in that i mean, i would never say to you, you shouldnt do this and shouldnt do that when it comes to other people in this world. I live my life by saying to myself, i wouldnt do/say that to you. That said, here is my side of the events of "Pissed Off" Night on blogtv.

On the internet, as in this world, there are many distinct personalities, most of which i have had the privilege of inter-action with. I adore any one who finds me funny, attractive, good hearted and in that adoration comes a built in loyalty. it is a fierce loyalty that leads me to defend you til the bitter end. That loyalty continues until i find a reason it should not be rewarded. Unfortunately some people feel the need to push that limit up before i have decided it has been reached. for arguments sake that isnt to say i dont listen to others advice, i do. However that advice is invalid when a statement like this is Uttered "I dont really talk to him/her, he or she is just annoying me". Is that a poor decision? If you have abslutely NO knowledge of what a person is like, how can you make a judgement on what is going on in the chat?

There are so many behind the scene jokes that go on, on the internet, they are easily mis-interpreted by those ouside the joke. the need for people to fit in is so great, that people go outside themselves to do so. it is an inborn need, instilled in every human being. to belong.
And who are any of us to deny that? I do not count my self in this group. as far as i am concerned, we all belong together until you prove me wrong. I wasa freak once, i was abandoned by more people than i care to remember, those scars never heal, they lay festering.

I believe every one has a place in my blogtv room. And that is because i have had an interaction with each and every one of you that has made me smile and feel loved. some of these interactions are stronger than others, thats a natural occurrence when people of like mind click.
But I truly adore each and every one of you...until you cross me. I have yet to figure out if this is a curse or a blessing but it is in my nature to love, to hold each and every one of your dearly with in my heart and to be unquestionably loyal to you. Cross me and i will be come colder than any artic or subarctic temperature you have ever heard about. its either a curse or a blessing.

In the end, its all about getting along and being tolerant of one and another and knowing that each and every one of us is unique and worthy of love, friendship and acknowledgement, No Matter how annoying or funny, no matter how good or bad, right or wrong.
We all have scars that never heal that lead us to remember the pain we have felt that has molded us into the person we are, some choose to use that to better themselves. others lie in a darkened corner and bitterly fight the world in some way of extracting revenge. I am the former rather than the latter, and I WOULDNT DO THAT TO YOU. I love you all, see you next Thursday if not sooner. this is the Mighty Thor saying SEEE YA!